ask us to tell a lie or shave the beard off or keep it less than a fist-length, then do not listen to them at all, no matter how angry they become. You will not be considered disobedient. Rather, if you obey them in such a matter, you will definitely be considered disobedient to Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ.
Similarly, if parents are divorced and the mother tries to prevent offspring from meeting the father, offspring must not obey this order of the mother, no matter how much she cries. Not only will offspring have to meet the father but also serve him. Even though parents are separated but the relationship with offspring is not broken. Both of them still have rights over the offspring.
The one whose parents have passed away while they were displeased with him, should abundantly make Du’ā for their forgiveness, as the biggest gift for the deceased is the Du’ā of forgiveness. He should also make as much Īṣāl-e-Šawāb to them as possible. When the deceased parents receive the gifts of rewards on a regular basis, it is hoped that they will get pleased with him.
It is mentioned on page 197 of Baĥār-e-Sharī’at, part 16 [the 312-page publication of Maktaba-tul-Madīnaĥ, the publishing department of Dawat-e-Islami]: The Prophet of Raḥmaĥ صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم has said, ‘Someone’s parents or one of them