Answer: This is certainly a situation which requires a lot of patience. They must repent sincerely from whatever sins they have committed in the past and humbly plead to Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ for deliverance from this sinful love affair. They must avoid seeing each other, any picture or gift of each other, or anything else that could make them think of the other person. They should immediately get rid of these things. They should not answer phone calls from the other person, or read each other’s romantic letters, and totally avoid even thinking of each other as much as possible. They should instantly occupy themselves in religious deeds. Increase the love of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ and His Beloved Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم in their hearts and seek help from the Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم:
Maḥabbat ghayr kī dil say nikālo Yā Rasūlallāĥ
Mujĥay apnā ĥī dīwānaĥ banā lo Yā Rasūlallāĥ
Remove the love of everyone else from my heart O Prophet of Allah
Make me only love you, O Prophet of Allah
Question: Please tell us a Waẓīfaĥ [spiritual remedy] for relief from a love affair?
Answer: As well as acting upon the Madanī pearls given at the beginning of the previous answer, one can also recite the following Waẓīfaĥ:
بِسْمِ اللّٰہِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِیْمِ ﴿﴾ لَاۤ اِلٰہَ اِلَّا اَنْتَ سُبْحٰنَكَ اِنِّیْ کُنْتُ مِنَ الظّٰلِمِیْنَ ﴿﴾ اَللّٰہُ نُوْرُ السَّمٰوٰتِ وَ الْاَرْضِ