I love a person very much, he promised that he would marry me but now he has changed his mind, please do something, please talk to him!
I love him so much that if I don’t see him any day (i.e. مَـعَـاذَ الـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ if I don’t sin with my eyes) my heart does not feel peace, I wish I could be with him.
I have no more patience, I cannot live without him, if I do not get married with him I will kill myself. (مَـعَـاذَ الـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ)
I love him a lot, please give me a Ta’wīż that will make him love me too! (مَـعَـاذَ الـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ)
I want my beloved at any cost.
He’s the only thing in my heart and mind, I can’t even think of anyone else.
We have been seeing each other for four years, he claimed to love me, but now he has drifted away from me, he has destroyed my happiness.
Question: Some young lovers get married in court despite resistance from their families, is this appropriate?
Answer: This is definitely not appropriate. In fact, if the man does not meet the standard of Kufw of the woman and she married without her guardian’s (Walī) consent, then this marriage is invalid. Supposing he meets the standards of her Kufw and their marriage is valid, even then marrying in court is a cause of severe pain for their