Answer: Any man who does not prevent his wife and Maḥram female relatives from unveiling despite having the power to do this is a ‘Dayyūš’. The following is a warning by the Noblest Prophet    صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم, ‘Three types of people shall never enter Paradise, a Dayyūš, a woman that adopts masculine style and an alcoholic.’ (Majma’-uz-Zawāid, vol. 4, pp. 599, Ḥadīš 7722)

Women with male hair and dress styles should learn a lesson from this sacred Ḥadīš. Parents who make their young girls have boyish haircuts and wear boyish clothes and hats should be careful. They should make their young girls consider themselves different from boys from an early age so that once they reach puberty and sensibility, they have no difficulty in moulding their habits and practices to comply with Islamic law. The previous blessed Ḥadīš mentions the words ‘shall never enter Paradise’. This actually means that they will not be allowed to enter Paradise for a ‘very long time’, because any Muslims who, مَـعَـاذَ الـلّٰـه عَزَّوَجَلَّ, will enter Hell as a result of their sins, will eventually reach Paradise.

Remember! No one is able to tolerate the punishment of Hell for even a millionth of a second; so we must always make efforts to avoid every single sin and continue to pray for entrance into Jannat-ul-Firdaus without accountability. ‘Allāmaĥ ‘Alāuddīn Ḥaṣkafī          عَـلَيْهِ رَحْـمَةُ الـلّٰـهِ الۡـقَـوِی wrote the following about a ‘Dayyūš’: Dayyūš is the person who does not care about his wife or any other Maḥram woman’s (indecent) behaviour with other men.

(Durr-e-Mukhtār, vol. 6, pp. 113)

So we learnt that any man who does not prevent his wife, mother, sisters, and young daughters etc. from wandering unveiled in streets, shopping centres and mixed public amusement parks; or does not stop them from conversing informally and appearing unveiled